HOW TO UNLEASH YOUR CHARISMA

Today, I'd like to share some extremely empowering
tips for you, whether you are searching for a great
woman, or whether you have already met her and
want to take things to the next level.

The first thing I want to share with you is how
to actually BECOME far more confident, far
more charismatic, and also far more understanding
and wise. These are the traits that a quality woman
is searching for in a man, and there is a WAY to
achieve this.

Just like your muscles become stronger by
gradually and regularly increasing the amount
of weight they are lifting, so too your ATTRACTIVE
EMOTIONS become far stronger by gradually and
regularly having to USE them to greater and greater
extents.

So, for example, if you wake up in the morning
and you already feel negative or angry or pissed
off, or if you feel frozen the moment you are
supposed to go up to a woman and talk to her,
then realize that you don't have to go from
ZERO to SUPER AWESOME STATE.

Rather, just like you would increase the weights
a little each time you go to the gym (when you
are starting out), so too you just have to exercise
the right emotions a bit more each day to get
much much stronger over the course of just a
few weeks. And the way to do this is, for
example, to wake up in the morning and
make a commitment to make one
COMPASSIONATE wish for someone
other than yourself. (I'd like to give thanks
to Sakyong Mipham for this -
http://www.mipham.com/teachings.php?id=20)

The very idea of trying to give to OTHERS when
you are feeling like YOU are the one who is in
need might seem strange, but the IRONY is that
actually this is best way to STRENGTHEN
your emotional state, to feel a billion times
more empowered.

Life is full of interesting yet often sweet ironies.
The time when you feel it's craziest to be focusing
on others, that's the time when you need to do it
the MOST! That's because it actually gives YOU
strength, gives you emotional resources that
you never thought possible- and when it comes
to the person you are, as far as a woman is
concerned, the ONLY impact you will make
is when you are actually in the right emotional
STATE.

Forget pick-up lines, forget manipulation tactics-
the truth is they don't WORK! They certainly
don't work to turn you into the kind of man
that is the REAL version of a "James Bond"
character. Can you imagine a real "James Bond"
type trying to memorize a pick up line in order
to meet a woman?

I recently received a powerful letter that
helps highlight the power of your real
emotional state:

***LETTER***

"Michael, this is purely fan mail. I'm a thirty
year old man and I can honestly say that having
downloaded your e-book and read your articles
has brought a tremendous light of understanding
into my life. I have been returning to your stuff
over and over and I keep getting more out of it.

I suffered a lot growing up, with some devastating
blows to my capacity for intimacy- consequently
developed a massive blind spot around the whole
area of sexual attraction. This has long been
my "achilles heel".

I couldn't accept the bitter, cynical advice offered
by most dating gurus because that's just not an
expression of who I am. I am currently working
my butt off in Nursing school, but I have every
intention to come up to Toronto and do a
seminar with you after I graduate.

I noticed you mentioned that you do some
meditation, I have done a lot of Buddhist
meditation with the Shambhala community.
It's funny, Your speaking voice is SO similar
to the Shambhala communities leader,
Sakyong Mipham. And actually your message
is similar too in many respects.

I thought you might appreciate this music video
from the Sakyong, Titled "What About Me?"
You are both my heroes.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDSAAlrqAHM

I didn't used to understand the altruistic nature of
Buddhism because, lacking self esteem I had no basis
to work from. I'm not there yet, with respect to women
or Buddhism, but I've come a long ways.

Sincerely,

John T.
USA

>>>MY COMMENTS<<<

Thank you first of all for the kind words, they
mean a lot to me. Secondly, congratulations
on your waking up from "the Matrix" and
realizing that the answer to improving
dating success and relationship success
on a serious level comes not from cynical
attitudes towards women, but from growing
INTERNALLY.

You said a wonderful comment regarding
how self-esteem is the basis of altruism.
It's also the basis of CHARISMA, because
human beings on a very visceral, powerful,
primitive CORE level will always feel
that the person who is confidently GIVING
good emotional vibes to others must ALSO
be the person who is STRONGER and
who is "more" of all the desirable things.

I had actually not heard of the cool person
Sakyong before, but as soon as you mentioned
him, I checked out his site, and so I take your
comments as a big compliment- thank you.

So the key to having more charisma with
women is to everyday push your own
emotional envelope further, when it comes
to the emotions you know right now that you
need to STRENGTHEN.

For example, if you know that going up to
women and saying hello is the thing you
fear the most, then you need to start doing
small versions of that, i.e. just smiling
and making eye contact, then building
up to saying hi, then having a longer
conversation, etc.

If you are currently the kind of person who
feels bitter about women, then you need
to start exercising the emotions of COMPASSION
toward women, bit by bit, and you will see,
if you do this everyday a bit more, that you
will grow INFINITELY stronger and you
will feel like a MASSIVE WEIGHT has
been lifted off your shoulders, off your
mind, so that you can truly TAKE OFF
and soar emotionally. Remember- your
emotional STATE is the key to your
charisma.

I'd like to make one final point about how
long it takes to actually CHANGE, to actually
GET RESULTS.

And the answer to that question is that
it can happen REALLY FAST. I'm talking
LIGHTNING fast.

It can also take FOREVER- and the KEY
factor that determines how long it will
take is all up to YOU.

Yes, YOU.
If you truly WANT to become the kind of man
you need to be, if you are truly motivated, then
you will see VERY FAST change.

But if you would rather just sit around and
soak in negativity, or laziness, or indifference,
then it's easy for you to NEVER get the
internal leverage to change.

Many years ago, there was a man who had certain
ideas about IMPROVING the performance of
the auto makers in the US. He was met with
very LITTLE welcome, his ideas did NOT
catch on.

However, the auto makers in Japan at that time
were extremely RECEPTIVE to his ideas.

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand
that the car companies that were well established
felt very little internal LEVERAGE or need to
really change and improve all that much.
It was too much work, it seemed.

In life, you must constantly be seeking to improve
yourself. Not in a way where you feel depressed
that you are not improved, but simply that you
are constantly working on yourself- that IS
the purpose of the whole thing on this planet.
It actually brings you into the most resourceful
state.

Anything else, and you feel you're slowly sliding
DOWN. Not good for your emotional state at all.

So I urge you to figure out WHY it matters
to you to MAKE the changes required, or
you will never do it. Once you have the
WHY figured out, the rest comes pretty
easy. You just have to follow the ideas
and steps that I explain in detail in my
books and programs. But without the
internal leverage there, you will never
actually apply the knowledge.

Some people smoke all their life, saying they
could never quit, and then when their doctor
tells them some horrific news about their
health, suddenly they are able to quit
cold turkey.

Some people are miserable to their relationship
partner their whole life, until that person leaves
them, then suddenly they are totally able to
change, they realize the full emotional brunt
of their mistake only then, but it's too late.

I believe most people can change and get results
VERY FAST, if they are truly READY and
willing.

Don't be the guy who only gets ready when
it's too late. Take action NOW and get the
woman of your dreams by going to
https://www.getagreatgirl.com/Book.html
IMMEDIATELY.

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Best,

Michael

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