Over the past few years, in actively & consciously trying to meet women, I have learned a few things. a quantity of these came as enlightening epiphanies, some came with groans & slaps to the forehead, but they all came with experience.
2 Be willing to change, but only for yourself.
3 It is a numbers game. Play the numbers, roll with the punches. It's a roller coaster, ups & downs, infant. "When you're up, it's seldom as nice as it seems & when you're down it seems like you'll seldom get up again." You will.
4 In general, it is bad form to apologize. For anything. You can admit you were wrong, you can offer to make things right, but don't apologize.
5 "Good things come to those that wait". Not this time. nice things come to those that act. The 3-second rule works on lots of levels.
6 Do not ask permission to do or say anything. seldom ask a woman if you can kiss them, hug them, hold them, etc.
7 there is no such thing as overconfidence. there is such a thing as taking yourself seriously, however.
8 Agreeable is boring.
9 Jealousy is a "let's be friends" best friend.
10 seldom ask questions that are designed to find out what she thinks of you.
11 Humor covers a multitude of sins. Laughing is an aphrodisiac. Learn to be funny. Listen to comedy albums. George Carlin, Eddie Murphy, Chris Rock.
12 Nobody likes a complainer. Unless he's funny.
13 Role reversal is great fun, & it works. Act like she is trying to get in to your pants. Play hard to get. Fight fire with fire.
14 A fireplace is a worthwhile investment.
15 A drop of vanilla extract in your bottle of cologne. one spray on your throat, one on your chest, & a little behind your ears.
16 You must lead. Even if you don't know where you're going. Make it an adventure. Take her hand & lead.
17 The only thing that matters with a woman is now. What she thought of you 10 minutes ago is probably different from what she thinks of you now & what she might think of you 10 minutes from now. So don't worry about what she thinks of you.
18 Life isn't fair & dating is a part of life. Dating, dealing with women, isn't & isn't supposed to be fair. Get over it.
19 Touch her first, immediately, briefly. Let the kino progress naturally. Don't force it.
20 Women love dogs.
21 there is no such thing as playing out of your league. Everyone is in the same league. There may be all-stars & scrubs, but even all-stars lose & even scrubs can become all-stars with practice.
22 Take periodic breaks from the game. Focus on your other interests. Get your life straightened out. Do something else, then come back.
23 Get her to call you, do you favors, adjust her schedule for you, etc.
24 If you plan to get serious with a woman, there are a few things you should take in to account. First, she will turn in to her sister. Second, she will turn in to her sister.
25 The difference between being congruent & sending mixed signals: Being congruent has to do with who you are. Sending mixed signals is about how you feel about her.
26 nice dancers are nice in bed.
27 A woman will check you & keep on testing you. Don't get comfortable. Stay on your toes.
28 Don't let flirting drag on. Stop while it's still fun. Close, or leave & come back.
29 nice kissers are nice in bed.
30 Women like sex as much as they do. they like to talk about it as much as they do , maybe even more. But not in the same way.
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