How to Tell If a Girl Is Interested In You?

First of all, I need to let you know that female interest is a COMPLETELY different animal than OUR interest.

The AGE OLD query: "Is he interested in me?" has come up. Now, I need to share with you a simple way of finding out if this is the case.

This does not work the same way for women. You see, a woman can be totally in to you at the time, but later on not feel as much for you. You must remember this at ALL times. Female interest does NOT work the same way as MALE interest.

You see, our interest is very consistent. When they are interested in a woman, they are interested in her ALL THE TIME. Our interest in a woman will stay with us no matter what. Even the mere THOUGHT of the woman that they are interested in can make us feel that attraction and anxious feeling in our gut.

The interest that the woman has is still *there*, it's not *activated* unless you are in her presence.

HOWEVER....there IS one thing that is similar.

Another thing, you need to ALWAYS assume that until you are given DIRECT PROOF that he is not interested in you (has a fella, has said "no" or has told you he wasn't interested), then he is. That, or you get tired of pursuing her and you finally lose interest yourself.

So remember, they are not going to confuse her MOOD with her INTEREST in us. lots of times when a woman gets "flighty" with us, they think it's because he isn't interested in us when it could be the MOOD that he is in. do not make this mistake!

It's difficult to check for whether a woman is INTERESTED or not, but is easy to check whether a woman is NOT interested. The best way to do this is to MAKE A MOVE (phone number, date request, kiss test, etc.), if the woman says NO, or says he doesn't need to do it, then you've got your answer.

This doesn't necessarily mean that you should through in the towel YET, I know a lot of guys who have gotten NO from women but turned around and gotten the woman to need them. This is possible, but usually if you're given a "no" then you finally will get sick of pursuing her anyway.

Now, if he says something like "Oh well I'm busy" or whatever, you may try again. he could well be interested in you, but her MOOD is not allowing her to FEEL it.