At 22 I had been walking my own business for a few years & had employees working for me all over the world with a sweet office on the second story of a pedestrian mall downtown. But I was still a chump when it came to women.
Yet, I frequently chat with Billionaires or Elected Officials about business & politics with ease, but put a beautiful woman in front of me & I turned in to a babbling idiot. I didn't understand how that was possible.
So I'd pound a few more drinks thinking it would give me more confidence even though it seldom did. It was a big turn-off for women! Although like an idiot, I kept going out & doing the same things over & over only to end up frustrated & hung-over.
A friend of mine recommended I read "The Game" & it opened my eyes to a whole new world. I done the book in a few days & got online where I found this site (which I still check religiously for new tips).
I Was Excited!
I was excited to put these new strategies to the test, but I was reluctant to use them in my hometown for fear I would see the women again later & feel humiliation if I failed at a pickup.
I had to get over my fear because I was in L.A. specifically for that reason. Every time I got nervous before an approach I reminded myself that I flew out here to talk to her. I was committed & had no excuses.
Since most of this game stuff originated around L.A., I flew out there for a long weekend to meet women in Orange County, Long Beach & Hollywood. I opened most of the women in the clubs each night.
I chatted up everyone — bouncers, bartenders, cops, cocktails, models, & even a Miss arizona top 10 contestant.
My Heart Was Still Jumping!
My heart was still jumping but the more I talked the more I realized I had nothing to be afraid of.
The trick was to be friendly & social without an ego or agenda. I was trying to have a great time.
I was getting in to clubs without waiting in line & bartenders were giving me drinks so filled with booze I had to go back a couple times to get the drink watered down. I'd seldom been to these bars/clubs before, but I was getting VIP treatment without throwing around money.
When I talked to people I explained I was in town on holiday because I'd heard everyone in L.A. was lovely & friendly. People responded in kind. By the end of the last night in Hollywood an beautiful woman asked me to get a hotel room with her. I was too shocked to even know how to respond. I was getting the results I wanted, but way faster than I could even handle it. Talk about Validation!
After that weekend I've honed my skills & internalized the information on this site. I got over my fear of women after making hundreds of approaches. After who knows how plenty of nights out & hundreds of vodka redbulls.
The Magic of Building Attraction!
As the saying goes "The older I get, they keep staying the same age". Women will always be out there! Unlike women, the older a man gets the more beautiful they becomes. Now that I'm not stressing about chasing tail all the time I'm much happier & can put more focus on things that matter in life with more confidence & conviction.
Once you understand the magic of building attraction, you can get the validation you need to literally not care about getting girls. Most of them are stupid creatures with lovely bodies anyway. I don't even ask them out anymore because the right ones will ask me out first.
I owe it all to the jump-start I got in L.A. If you're new to the game I highly recommend committing yourself to a trip specifically to get over your approach anxiety. Arm yourself with the material on this site & use it. Even if you have to put a trip on a credit card — I assure you it will be worth it!
When you're out of your element you have no reason not to bust through your comfort zone. Even if you make a fool of yourself no two will know but you. than feel anxiety at approach or humiliation at rejection, you will learn from your mistakes & try again, that's the intention of your trip!
Safe Travels!
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