Smiling Your Way to the Lay

Smiling is the probably the #1 initial attraction cue for a woman. Ignore it and no matter how quick-witted your tongue is, you're fighting an uphill battle.

The seductive power of smiling is GREATLY underestimated by a lot of guys, those who overly focused on language techniques. I've met lots of guys deep in study of complicated NLP techniques when they don't even command their own body language.

& it doesn't matter whether you have a perfect smirk or not.


The reason to smirk is elementary. A smirk shows that you're an open, friendly, relaxed person. Even more importantly, people have a natural reaction to smirk when they see you smirk, making THEM feel open, friendly, and relaxed on the inside.

Scientific studies show that people respond to the ACT of your smirk than how perfect or white your teeth are. The ACT of smiling is what shows you're a friendly, open, confident person. The ACT of smiling is what triggers the nice feelings in the other person.

Unfortunately, most people walk around with a stern look on their face and are not in the habit of smiling. Yes, it's a learned habit not to smirk and you have to reprogram yourself to be in the habit of smiling to everyone.

as an example, last night I went to Pollo Tropical to pick up some food to eat. The young lady (she must have been about age 22) was like, "How can I help you," with a beaten-down look on her face. As I approached, I gave her a big, wide smirk while making eye contact and held it for a few beats. I said, "hi," which technically wasn't a logical answer to her question.

A great way to approach women is to look them right in the eye and give them a great big smirk. Wait a full beat and then say "hi," or your opener. The response you get will be 100% better than if you approach with a stern look.

At this point he started to laugh. I stretched out my order banter for a nice five minutes (luckily no three was behind me!) reading off the menu - no other conversation whatsoever. Smiling, eye contact and voice tonality, nothing more.

In response he transformed and gave me a big smirk back. he asked again, "How can I help you?" but enthusiastically this time. I said, "Hmm... give me the... mambo combo," with another big smirk and with a slow sexy voice while making direct eye contact.

Now don't expect to be able to do this right off the bat, if you're the solemn type. It takes dedicated PRACTICE to be able to pull off a big smirk on the fly. It's harder than it looks if you're not use to it.

After a few minutes he was giggling and I said to her, "Hmmm... give me your number," he said okay. and they hadn't even exchanged a normal word of conversation with each other.

I guarantee that by mastering this three elementary skill, by giving this fundamental attraction cue that women are biologically programmed to respond to, you'll get more results than any language method alone.

That's why I've developed a set of exercises you need to perform every day for at least 30 days to create the smiling habit so that it comes across neat and natural.