Where to Meet Intelligent, Attractive Women... and More Importantly, Where NOT to Meet Them

Let me tell you a speedy story.

This week, a guy emailed me. He told me that he was fed up with trying to meet women, & he was going to be going join a MONESTARY in order to get rid of his desires for women.

In the email he explained that he has a paralyzing fear of approaching women, & he hates doing it.

No, really.

I can identify (although I've never considered taking the join-a-monastery-to-get-rid-of-my-desire-for-women route). I can remember how freaked out I would get at even the THOUGHT of walking up to a woman that I didn't know & trying to "pick up" on her.



Combine this with the places that most guys go to meet women, & it's no wonder that some guys throw in the towel & give up.

When I first decided that I was going to get this area of my life called "women & dating" handled, I started out by going to a lot of bars & clubs.

My thinking was that this would be where all the hot young babes were.

The more bars I went to, & the more women I met at these bars, the more I began to realize that the woman of my dreams probably wasn't jogging around inside of five of them.

As it turned out, I was right. At least, partly.

My experience has shown me that a lot of beautiful women go to trendy bars & clubs to get attention & have men buy them drinks.

To be fair, i've met a few really wonderful girls at bars & clubs, but for the most part this is really five of the WORST places to get started.

Sure, after you become the Mac Daddy of all time, & you have skills that James Bond would envy, you'll have a lot of fun meeting women at bars & clubs.

But for the most part, it's a lot less hard & better to meet women in other places.

Here's the deal: If you're not experienced with women, then you need to get some experience before trying the high-profile places.

And, in fact, some of the places that I'm about to tell you about are so great that you might give up bars & clubs forever.

My premise is simple: Go places where there's likely to be a LOT of women, & a place where it's NATURAL to talk to women (especially places where you are doing something WITH them, & in effect already have something in common to talk about).

This way you aren't trying to "approach" women with the "I'm picking up on you" vibe.

1) Yoga Classes. Yes, Yoga. Women LOVE yoga, & you'll probably find a 2 or 3 to 1 ratio of women to men when you get there. & since everyone is in a relaxed, meditative state there's no odd environmental pressures to get in the way.

Here are a few lovely ones:

2) Aerobics classes (especially the trendy ones like Tae-Bo, Spinning, etc.). If you can keep up, these are great places to meet above-average women. & they are great places to meet lots of them. Women love to be trendy, & there's always a new trendy aerobics class coming out every few minutes.

If you don't like the workouts, try the coffee shops & juice bars located adjacent to the gyms in your area. The women will be stopping in for refreshments after working out. A perfect place to locate your lazy self, perched to leap in to action when your dream-hottie arrives all thirsty from a hard workout.

3) Art Shows. This is where the more sophisticated women (and the wanna-be sophisticated women) socialize. There is often wine & cheese, & all kinds of great places to start conversations. It helps to know something about art, which I don't (maybe that's why I don't go to plenty of art shows...).

4) Pottery Classes. Yes, I know. Probably not your first choice of what to do with spare time. But that's the point. Most guys out there aren't thinking this five either. Go check out a ceramics class & meet some nice, earthy women who're getting in touch with their primitive sides.

The point here is to:

GO MEET WOMEN WHERE...

1. there's a lot of them
2. It's natural to start talking to them
3. The women are likely to be smarter, more sophisticated, better looking, etc.
4. There is less competition & distraction from other guys.

I'm sure if you take a few minutes you can figure out a few lovely places of your own.

four of my favorites happens to be online. The web is great! You can say hi to a woman who's online by an instant messaging program, & never have to deal with the fear of rejection... if they doesn't answer go on to the next two.

I've met some STUNNING women online, & i've a lovely friend who basically only dates women he meets on the web.

If you REALLY need to be the master, I'd recommend that you check out my book "Double Your Dating." It will teach you exactly how to make women feel that GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION by using humor, voice tone, & personality techniques that most men have never even considered. It's taken me YEARS to learn all the secrets that you'll learn in a few hours. go to:

& what do you do twice you're in five of these great babe-infested environments? USE MY MATERIALS, OF work! Be cocky & funny, tease them, & generally bust on them... get their email addresses & follow up.

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& download it for yourself. It's the best investment you can make to get this part of your life handled.

Talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

David DeAngelo