What Are You Made Of

Hey Gentleman

What you are about to read is not
how to attract MOST women, it's how
to attract a truly GREAT woman.

I'd like to let you know the truth about
attracting a quality woman. By a quality
woman, I mean a woman who really has
the qualities inside as well as out. This
is not about how to attract trash.

Let me tell you something that 99%
of men will never do, that is the
no-b.s. SECRET to getting a
fantastic woman:

LEAD THE WAY
Don't look to SOCIETY to show you what
to do.

And I don't just mean lead the way with
HER, but lead the way in your OWN life,
lead the way and don't wait for someone
to give you APPROVAL for what you
already know in your HEART is right.

What do I mean by this?
I mean having a CODE of honor that
you will follow REGARDLESS of
whether most people think it's cool
or not.

The reality is that if you want a woman
of honor, of integrity, a woman who has
the SELF-ESTEEM to CHAMPION
those values that you cherish in life
such as fidelity, passion, purity of
heart, and respect, then let me tell
you that you damn well better be
having those things in SPADES
yourself.

And in our culture, we are brainwashed to
think that relationships are not something
SACRED.

Relationships are now a form of reality TV
entertainment. Faithfulness, respect, and fidelity
are scorned by most forms of entertainment.
We make heroes out of celebrities who destroy
their own relationships.

What's interesting is that when it comes to
EXCELLENCE in engineering, in science,
in medicine, in art, in ANYTHING besides
relationships, we intuitively KNOW that
it takes respecting the PROCESS and
respecting the KNOWLEDGE and that
it takes LEARNING and DEVOTION
to become GREAT at it.

But when it comes to interactions between
men and women, most men and women
go in CLUELESS and just imitate whatever
they see around them. And they expect
to SUCCEED this way?

Imagine flying a fighter jet while your eyes
are blindfolded. It would quickly be a
DISASTER.

Well, I assure you that human relationships
are just as precious and complex.

The most precious thing that a man or
woman gives each other is the feeling
of VALUING them.

That's it.
It's not the dinners, it's not the jokes,
it's not the physical stuff. It's the
intimate BOND that is what goes
beyond everything else.

As soon as that BOND is diminished,
everything else is just a matter of time
before it fades.

That BOND has to be PROTECTED at all
costs, it is the SACRED FIRE that keeps
the engine alive.

The reason that most people end up getting
divorced or they end up without the PASSION
for each other long term, is that they allow
the SACREDNESS of this bond to be
diminished- by giving less love, or by
disrespecting the sacred trust they have.

The single greatest culprit for making
these things happen is the MEDIA and
the CULTURE we live in that works to
mock relationships and real love, as if
those things are for sissies.

So if you are a man who wants a great woman
and a great relationship, you need a STRONG
woman, a woman who is not afraid of defying
our culture, and the media, and the programs
out there.

That's the first ingredient, don't even
WASTE your time on the wrong women
who don't get it.

The second ingredient is that you yourself
must not diminish your passion for living
the lifestyle that CHAMPIONS true intimacy,
for giving meaningful validation to a woman,
for honoring her.

There are many forces out there that will have
you believe a great relationship that is sacred
is impossible, that no good women are out
there.

But the truth is, there ARE amazing women
out there, not a LOT of them, but they are
out there, looking for a man as passionate
about the REAL THING as you are.

If you let yourself get poisoned and embittered,
you will simply be seduced by the warped messages
thinking that there is no other way but to give up
on your dream of being with a great woman.

Now, imagine you DO meet the RIGHT woman,
a woman beautiful inside and out, and she sees
that you are jaded and that you are too afraid
to be loving or kind or genuine, well all that
will do is show her that you are NOT the
man for her.

There is a massive difference between having
high standards for intimacy and bonding and
love, and being NEEDY for it. When you are
NEEDY for it, you actually LOWER your
standards and will do anything for any
female attention- and in fact THIS IS
THE REAL REASON FOR THE
DISTORTIONS YOU SEE IN THE
MEDIA!

Yes, it is all the product of insecurity.
Secure people know what real love feels like
and aren't afraid to GIVE it and to CHAMPION
it and to CHERISH it.

Those who are insecure however will promote
the jaded versions of love.

The common thread here is that the highest
standard of love comes from the highest
standard of EMOTIONAL STRENGTH-
so how do you DESTROY neediness
from your system? The answer is this:

Realize that neediness, insecurity, fear of
rejection, or any other anxiety is just an
EMOTION. It's just so strong of an emotion
that it makes you feel that your thoughts
flowing from that emotion are VALID.

So for example, let's say you see a woman
you want to approach, and you then feel
approach anxiety. So what you do is, you
start to look for the PERFECT THING
to say, the thing that will be REJECTION
PROOF completely.

Well, that SEEMS logical, right?
That would solve things.
But the problem is, no matter HOW perfect
the thing is that you will say to a woman,
it WON'T get rid of that anxious feeling!

That's because emotions are NOT logical.
The worst thing to do to get rid of an emotion
is to try to attack it with LOGIC!

By the way, this goes DOUBLE for trying
to change a woman's emotions by using
LOGIC.

So guess what the solution is?
The solution sounds very ILLOGICAL:
For example, to get rid of the approach
anxiety, you should NOT try to find a
REJECTION PROOF opener.

Any time you SUBMIT to a fear, you
NEVER satisfy it, it NEVER leads to
you feeling better, it ONLY leads to you
feeling WORSE and MORE fearful.

So ironically, don't be afraid to be WARM
to a woman, and don't be afraid to have
INSANELY HIGH STANDARDS OF
INTEGRITY, even if the people around
you do NOT. Of course, don't let yourself
get ABUSED, but don't be afraid that
your HIGH STANDARDS are silly
or something that is uncool.

The people that have changed the course
of human history for the BETTER tended
to have HIGHER standards than normal.
Did they feel they were somehow UNCOOL?
Or did they MAKE IT "cool" by being so
CLEAR AND DECISIVE AND CONGRUENT
ABOUT IT?

You can either be a follower or a leader.
I like to create LEADERS.
And women tend to LOVE leaders.

So the next time you want to approach a
a woman, and if you are a beginner, and
you are feeling anxious, DON'T look for
the perfect opener. That's too advanced.

First, destroy the anxiety by taking it
HEAD-ON and NOT giving in to looking
for some foolproof way to avoid rejection.
That feeling and desire for total security is
in itself the PROBLEM and it will show in
your interactions with women.

The best time to use a good opener is
once you already have a FOUNDATION,
because THEN you will deliver it
PROPERLY.

In fact, if you are a beginner, the best thing
to get over the FEAR of approaching women
is to just go up to women and say "hi".

This will not get you the best results IMMEDIATELY,
but it is the best way to get over the ANXIETY,
and once you are over the anxiety, you can THEN
learn to apply more complex approaches and methods.

Remember what I said about EXCELLENCE
being a PROCESS that you must respect and
be devoted to? So this is step ONE in that
PROCESS. And hey, if you want to learn
it all in one weekend, at the most accelerated
pace so you save time, then book a
BOOTCAMP with me.

Once the anxiety is out of the way, you can
move up to more advanced tactics, but until
that is out of the way, the search for more
"rejection proof openers" will actually
make you WORSE OFF, because you are
GIVING IN TO WEAKNESS, to the
FEAR that you are not WORTHY to
chat to her, etc.

And THAT IS NOT A GOOD JUSTIFIABLE
FEAR, because you ARE worthy, whether
you realize it or not.

Also, by the way, if you want to attract a
woman, don't give her REASONS to
be attracted to you. Instead, BECOME
attraction itself by destroying that which
is weak or needy inside of you, and by
reclaiming the power of your natural
identity as a man. This man that is
the real you is infinitely internally
STRONG, WARM, INDESTRUCTIBLE,
and is oozing with HONOR and COURAGE.

And the WORST THING you could
do, the thing that would destroy the
natural masculine identity in you, is
for you to do ANYTHING that stems
from FEAR or NEEDINESS.

Giving into it, whether it's NOT approaching
a woman you want to approach, or whether
it's staying with the wrong woman because
you don't think you could find someone
else, or lowering your standards of morality
just to be "cool" and fit in, will destroy
all the most ATTRACTIVE things in you.

It's ironic, that the things most guys do
to impress women actually LESSEN
women's attraction to them, because
they are fueled by fear and weakness.

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